sex lies and tapioca

I can't help it, I'm back on this prostitution thing. I think men who go to prostitutes are doing the right thing. And I think most women whose men do go to hookers know full well it is happening, and would rather their guys have safe sex with a packaged bimbo of their choice than be giving furtive gifts to a woman they are having an affair with and who is hoping the guy is gonna leave his wife as he keeps promising to do. Ok, ok. I know that not all hookers have myspace pages, belong to an exclusive 'escort agency' and have their 'dates' in slick DC area hotels. I also know that millions of girls and women and sold into sexual slavery every year in this fucked up world of ours where females (and many boys also) are traded like chattel, oxen and mutual funds. The two things are very different. Unlike the hypocrisy which permeates the dominant culture about sex.

I think it's a damn shame that Spitzer had to resign over his youthful myspace whore, and it's an even bigger shame when his successor, David Paterson admitted he had cheated on his wife with a number of women, but perhaps as he is considered 'legally blind', he just didn't notice that they weren't the woman he was married to.

Makes you wonder though, doesn't it? What were the real motives behind 'getting' Spitzer, at that particular moment in time, just as Bear Stearns was collapsing and the US taxpayer was gonna have to bail out another corrupt financial institution. Yup, you can always get a guy by the balls. Literally.

My checkered past includes the fact that I once threw a garbage can filled with rotting fruit and meat through the plate glass window of a London porn store, and was one of 16 women arrested during a Reclaim The Night march when the police came bearing down on us, batons and boots raised. My hardline feminist perspective gave no quarter and took no prisoners. But I've learned a lot in the last 30 years, and I've come to appreciate that when actor Hugh Grant was found entertaining a paid for blow job in his car, he was doing the 'responsible' thing. Imagine how many women throw themselves at him, how many would like to boast about their one night with a star. And he, knowing how messy that could become, opts to jerk off in the mouth of someone who does it for a living. Personally, I'm OK with that.

So, just had to get that out of the way. I'm also in a froth about how many lies are told to get the sex people wanna have, and how many lies are told to get out of the sex they don't want no mo'. I'm in a mood actually, all around.

Funny thought for the day. Condoleeza Rice as VP. I'm sorry - this is the woman who is famous for the phrase 'Mission Accomplished' and who is responsible in large part for a bunch of failed policies in the Middle East. We've already worked out that just because Hillary is a woman doesn't make her the right woman for the White House, and that just because he is black doesn't make Obama the right man for the White House, so along come the Republicans and say 'hey, we got it. Black and a woman. Bingo'.

I've found the perfect dessert - butterscotch tapioca. Need some.